The comments from yesterday still cracking me up…..Una mind ehn! Chai!!! SMH!!! Straight to the business of the day! ………. A lot of things flashed through my mind and I was like “how come I didn’t suspect anything” which explains those calls from his parents… Because friday was his engagement and they need him to be with them very early! Means he’s gonna wife another and he decided to use me as “send-off” from bachelorhood! Hmmm,you would have thought I cried or did something stupid but no,I never cried for once because the hurt was too much for me to even cry….”I just sent him a text and I wished him happy married life and I told God to be kind to him the way he was kind to me”. He went to America with his wife and after a while he mailed me and apologised to me and I was like “its ok”. He sent me a request on Facebook, I accepted it and right now he’s on my bbm. I’m sure some of you will be “smh’ing” for me right now but really if I don’t speak to him anymore, does it change anything???….. NO! It doesn’t, because I don’t know what God has saved me from, I might not be happy in the marriage or something worse, you can never know……and of course he’s not my MAN cos if he WAS,no one can take him away from me…
Looking back, I’m thankful that I didn’t get married then because really I wasn’t matured enough, not age this time but my mind and it would have felt like bondage to me because there was so much in life I still needed to explore but I thank God for my faith in him cos he was the only one I could look up to at that point and he didn’t disappoint me….
So ladies,u can never be too foolish or too smart,its just better to keep an open mind in everything….Guys,the evil some of you do surprises the devil himself, y’all need to chill and quit playing games because not everyone might be as lucky as my Ex who I let go without a FIGHT!
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Written by Ajoke, @omopuparodorodo
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