Morning Peeps, 🙂 what are you thinking? *rme*.. He is here again abi?! Yes, I’m here again o *tongue out* lol!.. (Lemme just do and finish this “woman mata” talk jawe) :)!
The point I will be diving in today is a big one because I was once a victim *covers face*- can you imagine! Hmmm, that will be a gist for another day sha!(Make I no fall mysef hand..lol) Before I start, please I’m not a love doctor o (I just know what I know) and I wanna share it with people, because I’ve been getting random calls from some readers. The number here is for photography purpose ONLY! Thanks 🙂
Straight to the day’s business, and today’s question is———
Why are you making excuses for him…..again?
I have come to observe that ladies often see the man as the prize. So once it looks like they have him – especially if he appears to be a good one – they want to do everything in their power to keep him. I understand that, but I don’t accept that and neither should you. You are the Prize. We should fight over you and want to do things to get and keep you. We should want to make sure you are ok. A man who loves and respects a woman will never want her in doubt when it comes to her knowing of his feelings towards her. When we are crazy about a woman, we are no longer the reserved and non emotional creatures you think we are. We become a mess – drooling internally when we think of you. We would never want you to feel you are on shaky ground concerning your status with us. We will publicly profess and show you to the whole world. We will put up a picture with you in it as our profile pic, tag you in all photos you appear in and most importantly make sure that our status box shows that we are in a relationship with you. Yup, that’s what we do when we love you – we say it out LOUD! And when we are out and about with you, our professions are usually crystal clear: ‘Meet my girlfriend, Tosin’ or ‘Meet my fiance, Tosin.’ Not, ‘Meet Tosin’ who is Tosin??? When we love you, we want the world to know that we love you. But I get amazed when ladies see the writing on the wall and continually make excuses to justify a man’s blatant abuse towards them. What do I mean? Take for instance the introductions highlighted above; He introduces you as just ‘Tosin’: you know you don’t like it, but you make an excuse within yourself and say, ‘he’s a private kinda guy, he doesn’t like to publicly show stuff.’ Really? Ok, let me ask, “Are you enrolled in midnight gymnastics with him?” In other words has he bent your body in ways you didn’t think possible? Well, there is only one thing worse than a guy sleeping with a woman in secret; and that is, a woman allowing that to happen. Before you allow a man to do you privately what can affect you publicly, he must first of all acknowledge you publicly as the woman he respects and loves. If he can’t do that, you need to tell me why you are still sticking around. How can you allow a man to knock you up when you are just ‘Tosin’ to him? You know you deserve better, so stop the excuses. Instead of making excuses for him, take charge – not of him or the relationship, but of yourself. Never remain in an environment where your integrity is compromised. Remember, you are the prize and we should work hard to get and keep you. And after all our hard work, you still have a right to say NO. The Bible even stated that He who findeth a wife has found a good THING(not he who findeth a husband). So you are the Prize not Men!
Do have a funfilled weekend 🙂
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